Wedding vows are one of the most personal parts of a ceremony, offering a chance to express your unique bond and promises.
Here is an example of a heartfelt vow to inspire you:
You cannot possess me for I belong to myself. But while we both wish it, I give you that which is mine to give.
You cannot command me, for I am a free person. But I shall serve you in those ways you require,
And the honeycomb will taste sweeter coming from my hand. I pledge to you that yours will be the name I cry aloud in the night,
And the eyes into which I smile in the morning. I pledge to you the first bite of my meat and the first drink from my cup.
I pledge to you my living and my dying, each equally in your care. I shall be a shield for your back and you for mine.
I shall not slander you, nor you me. I shall honor you above all others, and when we quarrel we shall do so in
Private and tell no strangers our grievances.
This is my wedding vow to you
Themed or Stylized Vows
- Literary-Inspired Vows:
- Quote your favorite author, poet, or book that resonates with your love story.
- Write vows in the style of your favorite genre, like a mystery, fantasy, or romance novel.
- Movie/TV-Show Quotes:
- Incorporate lines from your favorite films or shows that symbolize your connection (*e.g., “As you wish” from The Princess Bride).
- Promise to “be the Monica to your Chandler” or similar pop culture pairings.
- Fandom Vows:
- Use themes from shared interests like Harry Potter (“I solemnly swear to be your partner in mischief”) or Star Wars (“You are my light saber in the dark side of life”).
Humorous and Playful Vows
- Everyday Promises:
- “I promise to never watch our favorite show without you.”
- “I vow to always share the last slice of pizza.”
- Quirky Traits:
- Celebrate their unique habits: “I vow to love you even when you leave the toothpaste cap off.”
- “I promise to always kill the spiders, even if I’m just as scared as you.”
Metaphorical and Poetic Vows
- Nature Metaphors:
- “I vow to be your anchor in the storm and your sail when the winds are strong.”
- “Our love is like a garden; I promise to nurture it daily.”
- Journey Imagery:
- “From this day, I will be your co-pilot, your navigator, and your partner in every adventure.”
- “You are my compass, my true north.”
Personalized and Story-Driven Vows
- Milestone Memories:
- Share a moment that changed your relationship: “From the day we got caught in the rain, I knew I’d never want to weather storms with anyone else.”
- Future-Focused:
- Paint a picture of the life you’re building: “I promise to build a home filled with laughter, love, and lots of dog hair.”
- Call-and-Response:
- Have your partner respond to playful or heartfelt lines:
You: “Will you still love me if I binge-shop online?”
Partner: “Yes, but I might hide the packages.”
- Team-Building Promises:
- “As your teammate, I promise to tackle life’s challenges together, win or lose, always passing you the ball.”
Cultural or Heritage Vows
- Language of Love:
- Incorporate phrases or quotes in your native language or one you both cherish.
- Use a traditional saying or blessing from your culture.
- Symbolic Traditions:
- Reference cultural rituals or meaningful symbols: “Like the unbroken circle of this ring, my love for you has no end.”
Modern and Tech-Inspired Vows
- Tech Promises:
- “I vow to keep your phone charged when you forget.”
- “I promise to always tag you in memes that remind me of you.”
- Digital Memories:
- “From our first DMs to now, I vow to keep swiping right on our love story forever.”
Timeless and Romantic Vows
- Classic Lines with a Twist:
- “I vow to love you not only for who you are, but for who I become when I’m with you.”
- “I promise to love you as deeply as the ocean, as boundless as the sky.”
- Eternal Promises:
- “I will love you through every season of life, in sunshine and rain, in joy and pain.”
Collaborative Vows
- Shared Vow Writing:
- Write your vows together to ensure they complement each other and express shared values.
- Use a “Mad Libs” style where you fill in blanks to create playful vows.
- Incorporate Loved Ones:
- Reference advice or blessings from family and friends in your vows.