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Under 18 Years Old | Invite?

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To invite young people or children under 18 years old  to the wedding depends on the preferences of the couple getting married. So,  when it comes to planning a wedding, one important consideration is whether or not to include young people or children under 18 years old in the guest list. This decision can have a significant impact on the overall atmosphere and dynamics of the event. While some couples choose to have a child-free wedding, others embrace the presence of young guests and create a family-friendly celebration. 

For couples who decide to include children under 18 years old at their wedding reception, it is important to make appropriate arrangements to ensure their comfort and enjoyment. Providing designated areas young people and children can be a great way to accommodate their needs and keep them entertained throughout the event. This could also include setting up a supervised area for kids’ or young peoples’ with video games and crafts. Additionally, offering a separate menu or meal options specifically catered to young people and children’s tastes to ensure they are well-fed.

Other considerations

-Venue Suitability: Some venues may not be suitable for young people and children.  They may have restrictions on the number of guests due to factors such as space limitations, safety concerns, or restrictions set by the venue itself. For example, a small, intimate venue may not have adequate space for young people or children and their safely.

-Inviting children may increase costs for meals and entertainment. Many venues have restrictions on the number of guests allowed, and inviting young people or children may take up spots that could otherwise be used for adult guests. This becomes particularly important if the venue has a strict capacity limit.

-Desired Atmosphere: Couples may want a more formal or adult-oriented atmosphere at their wedding, which could influence their decision about inviting young people or children. Some young people and children are unruly and out of control to parents. They probably can’t find anyone to supervise or leave them with. You do not want these young people or children to disturb the ambiance of one of the most important events and days of your life. This instance: Sorry, won’t do!

-Alcohol – Serving alcohol is another reason you might not want to have young people or children in attendance at your wedding reception.  When adults drink, sometimes they say things or act in ways children should not hear or see. Also, when adults are driinking, and having a good time, children tend to be underfoot. Still, some guests will just let their young people or children go, unattended, when they are drinking and having a good time. Another consideration is young people and children having access to alcohol at the reception unbeknownst to the couple or guests. Minor alcohol comsumption is illegal by law.

Considering these factors, couples need to weigh the pros and cons of inviting young people and children. Compromises or adjustments will need to be made to accommodate children if you decide to include them on the guest list.

On the other hand, couples who choose to have a young people or child-free wedding may have valid reasons for doing so. Some couples may prefer a more formal and adult-focused event, where parents can fully enjoy themselves without having to worry about their young people or children. Additionally, excluding young people or children from the guest list can help create a more intimate and sophisticated ambiance. It is important, however, to communicate this decision respectfully (on your wedding invitation or by phone), clearly and early on to guests with children, so they can make appropriate arrangements for supervision.

Ultimately, whether or not to include children under 18 years old at your wedding reception is a personal choice that should align with the couple’s vision for their special day. By considering the pros and cons of having young guests and making appropriate arrangements, couples can ensure that all their guests, regardless of age, have a memorable and enjoyable experience at their wedding.

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